We have to learn that all criticism is not bad. Criticism is an observation or detailed examination and review. As a matter of fact, you need criticism because it spurs you to greatness. The greatest men in the world wouldnt have gotten to where they are without criticism. Criticism makes you better. Living in a world that has no criticism is dangerous. We all need somebody who is bold enough to criticize you and tell you 'I love you but that aint good for you'. The mark of a dangerous and fake friend is somebody who always says what you want to hear. A good friend would always have the effrontery to tell you the truth, however bitter it may be. Most people don't really want a friend but they want a cheerleader
Against this backdrop, we must learn to accept and live with criticism as it can help us achieve things we ordinarily wouldnt have achieved without positive criticism. As we become more mature we would learn to be able to accept criticism, draw from it what needs to be drawn.
We must learn that friends would not always be nice and the fact that someone is nice to you doesnt necessarily mean the person is a friend. However hurtful it may be, faithful are the wounds of a friend
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